Here I sit, the winner of my own private civil war, and what have I gained?
Bombs were thrown and insults were lobbed back and forth. “Liberal Demoshit.” This was a fight in the family, so relatives jumped in. “Well, you’re a right wing piece of shit.” The battle had to end with the final shot–the unfriending.
Granted, the guy in question is an asshole. He has a virulent hatred of the President and the First Lady. And he doesn’t do a very good job of hiding the fact that his hatred has a lot to do with their skin color.
It should be easy to crow over how stupid he is. But there is no feeling of triumph after a debate with a Trump supporter. There’s no satisfaction in having to cut off a part of my family. There’s only an empty sensation. I hate conflict. I hate fighting and mudslinging. My “uncle” hit me with a low blow, but I allowed myself to get dragged down there with him, and became just as much of an idiot as he was.
And it’s a bad sign of what’s been happening, more and more, to all of us. We can’t be friends if we’re on the opposite sides of the political party divide. And now it’s even difficult for members of the same party. I bite my tongue and stay quiet about the worries I have about a potential Bernie presidency, because I don’t want more unfriendings in my life.
I get the premonition that someday we’ll be standing there, looking at the charred, smoking remnants of our homes, our family relationships, our country. We’ll shake our heads sadly and say: “Yeah, it all started with an online argument….”